sunsetbeach2
- 61 y/o male
- |New York, USA
- English, English, English
- Businessman
- Have 1 children
- Last logged in: 2014-07-16 18:06:31
- ID: 241777
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Personal details
Sex
male
Children
1
Want children
No
Date of birth
1962 - August - 18
Height
5'8" - 5'11" (171-180cm)
Body type
Athletic
Ethnicity
Caucasian
Religion
Catholic
Marital status
Widow
Education
PhD/Post doctorate
Smoker
No
Drinker
Rarely
Details of the person you are looking for
I look for a
female
Looking for an age range
47 - 63
Relationship
Marriage
Description:
Let's start here:
"Generally, by the time you are Real, most of your hair has been loved off, and your eyes don't see as well and you get loose in the joints and very shabby. "But these things don't matter at all, because once you are Real you can't be ugly, except to people who don't understand"
The Velveteen Rabbit.
And then, this:
"To be nobody but yourself in a world which
is doing its best day and night to make you
everybody else, means to fight the hardest
battle which any human being can fight...and
never stop fighting." -e.e. cummings-
With that, let me add...in my own words. I am a lifelong learner...a lover of people...a believer In G-d. My Daughter and family mean more to me than life itself. I work hard and play harder, love well and count my many blessings. Jes sayin"...work like you didn't need the money; love like you have never been hurt and dance like no one is watching."
I believe: Passion is the energy of the soul.
If your dreams don't scare you, they aren't big enough.
Life is measured in Grace, not perfection...and
Comparison is the killer of Joy.
I try to make fewer mistakes today than yesterday. I sometimes fail and need help and forgiveness. Forgiveness is like air to a relationship...try going without it. Same for laughter. It is why (IMHO) friendship comes first... and is lived from the inside-out if it is to grow into...
About the one I'm looking for...YOU, perhaps? This next paragraph will scare you (if it doesn't, check your pulse) and perhaps make you run away. I have read it and it scares me. But here goes...She will be capable of real intimacy, true loyalty, sincere affection, a courageous truthfulness that gently hurts and a willingness to risk in favor of becoming...loved.
Can you truly fall on the floor laughing? Is soulcare something you need from your lover? Is quiet an important part of your lifestyle? Do you like to sweat in the athletic sense of the term? Are you afraid of having a large personal library in the house? How many dogs? Can you hold hands, go for long walks, take off for the weekend?
Do you enjoy? (that is not a typo!).
Do you think it strange that a man likes to do housework and make a mess while cooking in the kitchen (yes, ladies, I clean as I go)? Mutual foot massage...often? Gardening? Diving? Travel? Reading out loud (to each other). Live jazz (really that should be any kind of live music). A long list but the first sentence is the biggy.
I would not ask such if I did not plan to deliver same. I know you are out there...I want you to come home.
I'd just like to add...Sometimes I am confused when we tell each other that "I am spiritual, not religious". I think I know that sentiment well but to avoid any misunderstanding: I believe there is no event so commonplace but that God is present within it, always hiddenly, always leaving you room to recognize Him or not to recognize Him, but all the more fascinatingly because of that, all the more compellingly and hauntingly mysterious...something to be discovered, cherished. A story to be created and shared...with another...living as one from the inside-out.
Frederick Buechner:
"Listen to your life. See it for the fathomless mystery it is. In the boredom and pain of it no less than in the excitement and gladness: touch, taste, smell your way to the holy and hidden heart of it because in the last analysis all moments are key moments, and life itself is grace." (Now read it again making the 'your' plural...as in "us".
Enough.
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